Don't Kill My Vibe
Have you ever been around someone and something seemed off? Or maybe all you guys do is laugh and have a good time? What about your mood changing without anyone saying a word. For example, someone walks in the room with an attitude and your first thought is "oh h3ll...here we go..." What is happening is that person's energy is coming from them onto you.
Some people can block energy from coming into their "space", but others cannot say the same. Now suddenly you are on defense ready to battle whatever they are about to do or say before anything is even done or said. Just waiting for them to say the wrong thing so that you can go off, when two seconds ago you were perfectly fine.
How about being around some people feels draining. You are doing everything in your power to make this person happy or motivated, but it just seems like nothing is working. You keep trying anyways because they are your friend, family or loved one and you want to help. After a while, you unintentionally start to distant yourself from that person because it's just becoming too much. That is your body telling you that that person's energy isn't good for your right now.
How are you suppose to keep this positive mindset about life and the goals that you are trying to accomplish if you are surrounded by negative energy. You can only do so much. If that person seems like they want to help to have a better mindset on life or goals, by then all means go ahead in invest in them. Help them out the best way you can! But on the other hand if it seems like they prefer to stay the way that they are, then it's only so much that you can do. Energy is definitely contagious. Protect it.
'If you understood the power of your thoughts, you would govern them more closely - Karen Redmond
To be successful in life, you must be in a good mind frame. Surround yourself with like-minded people. Meditate. Do whatever you need to do so that you are in a good place. Once that negative energy consumes you, you will lose focus, motivation and the will to accomplish the goals that you set for yourself. Trust me, I know from experience. You've already put off your business this long, don't give yourself another excuse to prolong it even longer.
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